- Solving the challenges in your life requires a deep understanding of what causes what to happen.
- "The only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven't found it yet, keep looking. Don't settle. As with all matters of the heart, you'll know when you find it." - Steve Jobs
- Too many of us who start down the path of compromise will never make it back.
- What's most important to you in your career?
- Problem is that what we think matters most in our jobs often doesn't align with what will really make us happy.
- Good intentions are not enough...spend your resources consistent with your intentions.
- The opposite of job dissatisfaction isn't job satisfaction, but rather an absence of job dissatisfaction.
Wednesday, September 18, 2013
Few Notes of Wisdom for Reflection from 'How Will You Measure Your Life?' (Book by Clayton M. Christensen, James Allworth, Karen Dillon)
Sunday, January 27, 2013
Are you building a sustainable organization?
As the discussions focus on economic challenges, changes, unpredictable environments, global dynamics and impact on organizations:
* How are the actions of leaders in your organization linked or measured with creating long term value and building organizations to last long term?
* How are leaders measured on this dimension? What behaviors does that encourage?
* How do boards and organizations find the right ratio in requiring leaders to create short term vs. long term value?
Friday, March 9, 2012
Importance of 'Practice' in Training Programs & Leadership Development - From 'Primal Leadership'
Improving an emotional intelligence competence takes months, rather than days, because the emotional centers of the brain are involved-not just the neocortex, the thinking brain where technical skills & purely cognitive abilities are learned...But the basal ganglia & its links to the emotional centers learn differently: To master a new skill, they need repetition & practice. That's why it's hard to learn leadership abilities effectively in a classroom.
A teacher can't instruct your brain circuits that carry old habits of leadership to relearn new habits. What's needed is practice: The more often a behavioral sequence repeats, the stronger the underlying brain circuits become. People thereby literally rewire their brains: Learning new habits strengthens pathways between neurons, and may even foster neurogenesis-growth of new neurons.
A teacher can't instruct your brain circuits that carry old habits of leadership to relearn new habits. What's needed is practice: The more often a behavioral sequence repeats, the stronger the underlying brain circuits become. People thereby literally rewire their brains: Learning new habits strengthens pathways between neurons, and may even foster neurogenesis-growth of new neurons.
Friday, December 31, 2010
Notes from the book "Life Strategies" by Phillip McGraw
Recently completed reading "Life Strategies" by Phillip McGraw. Sharing some of my notes.
* Ask yourself: Do you really have a strategy in your life, or are you just reactively going from day to day, taking what comes?
* Problems and challenges almost never resolve themselves; they don't get better with inattention.
* Forget about being right or winning the argument about who is right. If what you're doing is not working, change it.
* Sometimes, the hardest part in learning something new is unlearning the old way of doing it.
* You are accountable for your life...If you don't accept accountability, you will misdiagnose every problem you have...By convincing yourself that you are a victim, you are guaranteed to have no progress, no healing and no victory.
* Bottom line: You are not a victim. You are creating the situations you are in; you are creating the emotions that flow from those situations...You must be willing to move your position, and, however difficult or unusual it may seem, embrace the fact that you own the problem.
* It is at the very core of human nature to blame other people; it is fundamental self preservation to try to escape accountability.
* The bad news is that the burden is on you. The good news is that the choice is yours.
* Abstract thoughts have the power to produce tangible and dramatic physiological events...Your physiology determines your energy and action level.
* Our most active and consistent dialogue is the conversation we have with ourselves.
* The principle of reciprocity simply says that "you get what you give." The manner, style and level you use to engage people will determine how they respond to you.
* Break out of your habitual doldrums. Climb out of that rut and look around...The longer you have been trapped in an irrational and painful lifestyle, the harder it is to create a new one.
* Knowing what you need to know and knowing how to do it are two very different things.
* If you won't take ownership of your role in a situation-then you cannot and will not change it.
* Denial, is what kills dreams. It kills hope.
* You can know a hundredfold today than you knew a week ago, but if you don't do anything about it, you aren't any more effective than you were last week, in your unenlightened state..Life rewards action.
* Lives move by trends and momentum...If you begin to do different things,..your actions will gain momentum.
* Choose to give yourself the chance. It's normal to be anxious and afraid, but you can't be dominated by the fear.
* Identify the filters through which you view the world. Acknowledge your history without being controlled by it..If you continue to view the world through a filter created by past events, then you are allowing your past to control and dictate both your present and your future...You are undeniably accountable for how you react to it 'now'.
* Get to know your limiting beliefs so well that if one begins to show even a hint of its presence, alarms will go off and you will counteract it.
* Simply put, never in your life are you without problems and challenges.
* Long established fact of psychological functioning is that it is not so much the particular circumstance that upsets the person involved, as it is the violation of his or her expectations.
* You shape the behavior of those with whom you interact.
* Don't give in to your negative momentum. Require more of yourself physically, mentally, emotionally and behaviorally.
* You are your number one worldly resource. Manage it and manage it well.
Best wishes for a happy 2011.
* Ask yourself: Do you really have a strategy in your life, or are you just reactively going from day to day, taking what comes?
* Problems and challenges almost never resolve themselves; they don't get better with inattention.
* Forget about being right or winning the argument about who is right. If what you're doing is not working, change it.
* Sometimes, the hardest part in learning something new is unlearning the old way of doing it.
* You are accountable for your life...If you don't accept accountability, you will misdiagnose every problem you have...By convincing yourself that you are a victim, you are guaranteed to have no progress, no healing and no victory.
* Bottom line: You are not a victim. You are creating the situations you are in; you are creating the emotions that flow from those situations...You must be willing to move your position, and, however difficult or unusual it may seem, embrace the fact that you own the problem.
* It is at the very core of human nature to blame other people; it is fundamental self preservation to try to escape accountability.
* The bad news is that the burden is on you. The good news is that the choice is yours.
* Abstract thoughts have the power to produce tangible and dramatic physiological events...Your physiology determines your energy and action level.
* Our most active and consistent dialogue is the conversation we have with ourselves.
* The principle of reciprocity simply says that "you get what you give." The manner, style and level you use to engage people will determine how they respond to you.
* Break out of your habitual doldrums. Climb out of that rut and look around...The longer you have been trapped in an irrational and painful lifestyle, the harder it is to create a new one.
* Knowing what you need to know and knowing how to do it are two very different things.
* If you won't take ownership of your role in a situation-then you cannot and will not change it.
* Denial, is what kills dreams. It kills hope.
* You can know a hundredfold today than you knew a week ago, but if you don't do anything about it, you aren't any more effective than you were last week, in your unenlightened state..Life rewards action.
* Lives move by trends and momentum...If you begin to do different things,..your actions will gain momentum.
* Choose to give yourself the chance. It's normal to be anxious and afraid, but you can't be dominated by the fear.
* Identify the filters through which you view the world. Acknowledge your history without being controlled by it..If you continue to view the world through a filter created by past events, then you are allowing your past to control and dictate both your present and your future...You are undeniably accountable for how you react to it 'now'.
* Get to know your limiting beliefs so well that if one begins to show even a hint of its presence, alarms will go off and you will counteract it.
* Simply put, never in your life are you without problems and challenges.
* Long established fact of psychological functioning is that it is not so much the particular circumstance that upsets the person involved, as it is the violation of his or her expectations.
* You shape the behavior of those with whom you interact.
* Don't give in to your negative momentum. Require more of yourself physically, mentally, emotionally and behaviorally.
* You are your number one worldly resource. Manage it and manage it well.
Best wishes for a happy 2011.
Sunday, December 19, 2010
Six Ways HR Leaders Can Become More Effective Business Partners ("The Talent Masters")
From the book, The Talent Masters by Bill Conaty and Ram Charan.
1. Understand your business and industry dynamics
* Financials and key operating levers that affect your business
2. Build your HR vision and strategies around the business model
3. Become problem solvers versus problem identifiers
* Remove issues from the plate instead of adding to the existing pile
4. Take your work seriously, but don’t take yourself too seriously
* Stay cool/provide a sense of balance and calm in the storm
5. Have the personal independence, self-confidence, and courage to push back or challenge the system when necessary
* Don’t salute every command..But pick your spots.
* Stay true to your personal values and convictions, those moments can make or break your career.
6. Never forget why you’re at the table
* Obligation to balance strong business partnership role with employee advocacy role
* People implications of decisions
* Never forget the “human” in human resources
1. Understand your business and industry dynamics
* Financials and key operating levers that affect your business
2. Build your HR vision and strategies around the business model
3. Become problem solvers versus problem identifiers
* Remove issues from the plate instead of adding to the existing pile
4. Take your work seriously, but don’t take yourself too seriously
* Stay cool/provide a sense of balance and calm in the storm
5. Have the personal independence, self-confidence, and courage to push back or challenge the system when necessary
* Don’t salute every command..But pick your spots.
* Stay true to your personal values and convictions, those moments can make or break your career.
6. Never forget why you’re at the table
* Obligation to balance strong business partnership role with employee advocacy role
* People implications of decisions
* Never forget the “human” in human resources
Saturday, December 4, 2010
Important Common Truths from "Life Strategies"
I'm currently reading the book "Life Strategies" by Dr. Phil McGraw. Thought this would be useful food for thought:
"The ten most significant common characteristics fundamental to human functioning I have identified are:
1. The number-one fear among all people is rejection.
2. The number-one need among all people is acceptance.
3. To manage people effectively, you must do it in a way that protects or enhances their self-esteem.
4. Everybody approaches every situation with at least some concern about "What's in it for me?"
5. Everybody prefers to talk about things that are important to them personally.
6. People hear and incorporate only what they understand.
7. People like trust, and believe those who like them.
8. People often do things for other than the apparent reasons.
9. Even people of quality, can be, and often are, petty and small.
10. Everybody wears a social mask. You must look beyond the mask to see the person."
"The ten most significant common characteristics fundamental to human functioning I have identified are:
1. The number-one fear among all people is rejection.
2. The number-one need among all people is acceptance.
3. To manage people effectively, you must do it in a way that protects or enhances their self-esteem.
4. Everybody approaches every situation with at least some concern about "What's in it for me?"
5. Everybody prefers to talk about things that are important to them personally.
6. People hear and incorporate only what they understand.
7. People like trust, and believe those who like them.
8. People often do things for other than the apparent reasons.
9. Even people of quality, can be, and often are, petty and small.
10. Everybody wears a social mask. You must look beyond the mask to see the person."
Friday, July 16, 2010
Airports & Our Travel
Airports are increasingly becoming relevant to millions of people around the world as air travel becomes more accessible and infrastructure development picks up. I remember doing a study on airport management during my engineering days.
For most travellers, airports create the first impression of a location. Having a world class airport makes a big difference to the image and branding of a city and country. I've had the opportunity to travel through few airports in the U.S., Europe and Asia. It is sometimes surprising how some important basic elements are not given adequate attention even in large international airports. I'm sure some of you would have felt related frustrations.
1. Crowd/Queue Management
As simple as this may sound, this is sometimes the most frustrating aspect for many travellers. Even in airports that have great infrastructure, this sometimes can be an issue. Basic training on this topic would be useful for airline/airport staff and immensely beneficial for travellers.
2. Seating availability
Sufficient and ergonomic seating availability should be among the most basic requirements but surprisingly many airports lack quality seating facilities.
3. Automated Walkways and Elevators
Large airports and transfers that result from one terminal to the next, and the trek between two gates far apart can be very tiring for many.
4. Screens and Information boards
This can sometimes be surprisingly confusing for even seasoned travelers. There's got to be a better science of understanding how information for travellers is easily visible and understandable.
5. Airport Information Services
It is very useful to have direct customer service at the airports, to cater to the diverse groups of travellers who may not understand the language and services available. If one does not have enough time between connections as well, this is very helpful. Additionally, every airport should have a tourist information center with competent staff who should be able to address various questions about the city in multiple languages.
6. Spacing between baggage carousels and related information
The chaos around baggage carousels can be very frustrating. Information about the flights served should be conveyed through multiple large screens. Expected wait time for luggage arrival should be communicated to passengers - as the waiting times vary quite a bit. Quick, efficient and high quality lost baggage services should be present as these passengers can be expected to be impatient and frustrated.
7. Free wireless connectivity, Internet facilities and plug in ports
In today's connected world, this should be a basic expectation.
8. Good restaurants with multiple dietary options
9. Public and other convenient transportation connections to the city 24x7
The planning should take into consideration various flight times and frequencies. Quality of service and interaction should be assessed rigorously.
As in most services, the competencies of individuals providing customer service can influence and contribute heavily to a traveller's overall experience and perceptions about the local culture. Service quality and employee development should be assessed constantly with high expectations. An airport is a window to the city.
For most travellers, airports create the first impression of a location. Having a world class airport makes a big difference to the image and branding of a city and country. I've had the opportunity to travel through few airports in the U.S., Europe and Asia. It is sometimes surprising how some important basic elements are not given adequate attention even in large international airports. I'm sure some of you would have felt related frustrations.
1. Crowd/Queue Management
As simple as this may sound, this is sometimes the most frustrating aspect for many travellers. Even in airports that have great infrastructure, this sometimes can be an issue. Basic training on this topic would be useful for airline/airport staff and immensely beneficial for travellers.
2. Seating availability
Sufficient and ergonomic seating availability should be among the most basic requirements but surprisingly many airports lack quality seating facilities.
3. Automated Walkways and Elevators
Large airports and transfers that result from one terminal to the next, and the trek between two gates far apart can be very tiring for many.
4. Screens and Information boards
This can sometimes be surprisingly confusing for even seasoned travelers. There's got to be a better science of understanding how information for travellers is easily visible and understandable.
5. Airport Information Services
It is very useful to have direct customer service at the airports, to cater to the diverse groups of travellers who may not understand the language and services available. If one does not have enough time between connections as well, this is very helpful. Additionally, every airport should have a tourist information center with competent staff who should be able to address various questions about the city in multiple languages.
6. Spacing between baggage carousels and related information
The chaos around baggage carousels can be very frustrating. Information about the flights served should be conveyed through multiple large screens. Expected wait time for luggage arrival should be communicated to passengers - as the waiting times vary quite a bit. Quick, efficient and high quality lost baggage services should be present as these passengers can be expected to be impatient and frustrated.
7. Free wireless connectivity, Internet facilities and plug in ports
In today's connected world, this should be a basic expectation.
8. Good restaurants with multiple dietary options
9. Public and other convenient transportation connections to the city 24x7
The planning should take into consideration various flight times and frequencies. Quality of service and interaction should be assessed rigorously.
As in most services, the competencies of individuals providing customer service can influence and contribute heavily to a traveller's overall experience and perceptions about the local culture. Service quality and employee development should be assessed constantly with high expectations. An airport is a window to the city.
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